Parent guide
How to choose a preschool or daycare
A short, plain guide. What to do, what to avoid, and what to ask when you visit.
✅ What to do
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Visit during school hours
Watch a real class for ten minutes. Are children busy and calm? Do teachers get down to the child's eye level?
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Ask for the full fee card
Get one-time charges, monthly fees and extras (meals, transport, activities, uniform) in writing. Compare first-year totals.
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Check safety yourself
Look for CCTV, a guarded gate, a visitor register, covered sockets, clean washrooms and a first-aid kit. Ask who can pick up your child.
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Ask about the settling-in period
Good schools let a parent stay nearby for the first few days and increase hours slowly.
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Do the commute at drop-off time
Drive or walk the route at the real time. A short distance can be a long ride in Gurugram traffic.
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Talk to two current parents
Ask what they like and what they would change. Read recent Google reviews for patterns.
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Meet the class teacher
The person who spends the day with your child matters more than the brand name.
🚫 What not to do
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Don't choose on the building alone
Bright walls and big lobbies are nice. Warm, steady caregivers matter more.
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Don't pay under pressure
"Only two seats left" is a common line. Ask for the refund policy in writing before paying anything.
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Don't ignore the staff ratio
For babies, look for about one adult for every three or four children. For 2 to 3 year olds, about one for every eight to ten, with a helper.
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Don't push academics too early
Under five, play is the work. Be careful with schools that promise reading and writing at age two.
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Don't skip the sick-child policy
Ask what happens when your child, or another child, is unwell. Keep a backup plan.
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Don't assume daycare hours match preschool hours
They are often different, and holidays differ too. Ask for the yearly calendar.
🧒 Which programme fits which age?
Names and cut-off dates differ between schools, so always confirm the age rule for the session you want.
6 months to 2 years
Daycare / infant care
Safe sleep and feeding routines, a consistent caregiver, clean spaces and a low child to adult ratio.
2 to 3 years
Playgroup / Pre-Nursery
Short days, lots of free play, songs and stories. Help with toilet training.
3 to 4 years
Nursery
Play-based learning, early language and numbers through activities, outdoor time every day.
4 to 6 years
KG (Junior and Senior)
School readiness: listening, sharing, early reading and writing at the child's pace.
📋 Visit checklist: 10 questions to ask
- 1How many children and adults are in my child's class?
- 2What does a normal day look like, hour by hour?
- 3How do you comfort a crying child in the first weeks?
- 4What is included in the fee, and what is extra?
- 5Can parents see CCTV, or get daily photos and updates?
- 6What meals are served, and how do you handle allergies?
- 7What training do teachers and helpers have? How long have they been here?
- 8Who is allowed to pick up my child, and how do you check?
- 9What is the notice period and refund policy if we leave?
- 10Where do most children go after finishing here?
📄 Documents usually needed
- Child's birth certificate
- Child's Aadhaar card (if available)
- Parents' ID and address proof
- Passport-size photos of child and parents
- Immunisation record
Each school has its own list. Check the Admission tab on the school's page.